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Writer's pictureErika Fodor

Breaking the Silence: Men's Mental Health, Infertility, and the Weight of Stigma









When we discuss men’s mental health, a troubling paradox emerges: despite the significant number of men experiencing mental health challenges, many hesitate to seek support. This hesitation allows mental health struggles to remain a “silent killer,” with stigma acting as a persistent and unyielding barrier to care.


Stigma, deeply ingrained in culture and tradition, takes on multiple forms. Social stigma involves societal perceptions that mental health issues signify weakness. Self-stigma occurs when individuals internalize these harmful beliefs, leading to shame and self-doubt. Professional and cultural stigmas further perpetuate outdated views of masculinity, reinforcing barriers to seeking help.


For generations, traditional masculinity has been associated with traits like strength, stoicism, and resilience. This “tough it out” and “boys don’t cry” mentality discourages emotional vulnerability, creating a harmful narrative around what it means to be a man. Suppressing emotions doesn’t make them disappear—it intensifies them, often manifesting as anxiety, depression, or even physical health complications.


This dynamic is particularly evident in the deeply personal issue of in/fertility. While societal focus tends to fall on female fertility, male infertility contributes to nearly half of all cases where couples face challenges conceiving. Yet, men often navigate this struggle in silence, burdened by feelings of shame, inadequacy, and isolation. For many, infertility questions their sense of identity and masculinity, amplifying the psychological toll.

The consequences are profound. The emotional weight of infertility can lead to depression, strained relationships, and reduced self-esteem. Compounding the issue, men frequently feel overlooked during fertility treatment, with healthcare systems often centring on female partners.


How Do We Break This Cycle?


First, masculinity needs to be redefined to embrace emotional openness. True strength lies not in suppression but in vulnerability. Speaking honestly about fears, disappointments, and challenges doesn’t diminish manhood—it enhances it. Expressing these emotions acts as a vital release valve for the pressure many men feel.


Second, we must challenge the stigma surrounding men's mental health and infertility. Societal myths—like equating fertility with masculinity—must be dismantled. Infertility is a condition, not a reflection of a man’s worth.


In my practice, I strive to approach male fertility with the sensitivity and care it truly deserves. I am committed to creating a supportive and confidential space for men to explore their emotions and experiences. Using tailored therapeutic approaches, such as Cognitive Hypnotherapy and acupuncture, I aim to provide holistic support that helps men feel heard, valued, and empowered.


Infertility and mental health are not just women’s issues; they are human issues. By fostering compassion, understanding, and openness, we can help men break free from stigma, embrace support, and rediscover their inner strength.

Because healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in connection.

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